A short understanding of the Monetary System

8. Confusion About the Manipulator’s True Motives

The confusion that develops in the victim about the manipulator’s motives is often an integral  art of the manipulative control. Recall that the endgame for the manipulator is to advance her own self-interests and goals with little or no regard for those of other people. However, a skilled ... Read More >>

7. How Do You Get Manipulated?

Manipulative relationships depend on activating one (or both) of two principal human drives: gain (or reward) and loss (or avoidance). These are the two engines that drive the manipulation. Do not bother looking for anything more complicated than this: Manipulation always boils down to the promis... Read More >>

6. Manipulative Motives

Manipulators operate out of three principal interpersonal motives:  1. They need to advance their own purposes and their own personal gain at virtually any cost to others. They are entirely self-serving and selfish by disposition, even if they say otherwise. Remember, smart, skilled mani... Read More >>

5. Basic Rules of Manipulation

Keep these key points foremost in your mind: -           You cannot and will not out manipulate a skilled manipulator; do not even try. -           Always pay attention to what the manipulator ... Read More >>

4. What Makes Manipulators Do What They Do?

Manipulation exists because it works. The best way to stop a manipulator is simply to disable her tactics—make her manipulation ineffective because you stop complying with her demands, desires, requests, or subtle or overt pressure. When manipulative tactics stop being effective inadvancing the... Read More >>